the jewelry box

While Loopy was laid up last week with the flu, we watched the Home Shopping Network - I was fascinated with the Jacqueline Kennedy Collection and the stories of the pieces (now reproduced for sale), their provenance and how Jackie felt about each one of them. 

Those of you who know me personally know that on a daily basis I rarely divert from my standard pieces: my Tiffany tag bracelet, my Tiffany bangle, my diamond Anne Klein watch from Veto (the first gift he gave me), and the simple pearl stud earrings that I borrowed from The Fan around the time of my sixteenth birthday, never returned, and now call them my "Sweet Sixteen" earrings... funny how that works, isn't it?

But like Jackie, I have a few pieces in my jewelry box that are of great sentimental value to me. I will never part with them and thought you might like to see them.


This is the pearl ring that The Secret Weapon brought back for my grandmother from Europe in 1957 - I think from Germany. Somehow it landed in that vintage Birks box and there it stays.


Here is a cute story... do you see, if you look very closely, (you might want to open this picture in a very large window) the diamond chip in this ring. I feel a little silly admitting this, but it was a gift from my ninth grade boyfriend. He was such a sweetheart. It was my birthday and he very ceremoniously presented it to me at my locker before school. He'd taken a job stocking groceries at the neighbourhood market and I think it set him back a grand sum at the time of one hundred dollars. The Fan, she was not amused... she attempted to set her foot down and insist that I return it. But I couldn't bring myself as it was the sweetest gesture, and I'm so glad I didn't. It's just a little reminder as I grow older of those sweet innocent days when a handsome boy asked if you would wear his football jacket or maybe his class ring. 


For my 21st birthday, The Secret Weapon designed and made me my first dinner ring. A statement piece with a beautiful triangular stone set in 14 karat gold. Did I ever tell you that The Secret Weapon was a famous jewelry designer back in the day?


I cannot remember quite what that blue stone is, but the Secret Weapon will know, and I will let you know.


I have the watch that my grandmother received from my grandfather as an engagement/wedding gift. After the Great Depression, it was not uncommon to wear a watch instead of an engagement ring... it was much more practical.  It is from the 1930's and I wear it on very special occasions.


From my era, I have the charm bracelet that my grandmother put together for me in the 1970's. She often brought back charms from her travels for me. I also had her bracelet, but an unsavory houseguest lifted it a few years back, that's a story for another day. Luckily, that houseguest didn't snip my Great Aunt Mary's charm bracelet (that would be Sassy's grandmother) and I dug it out and made sure McDreamy could have it repaired for Sassy in time for her first Mother's Day last year.

Sassy and I, we just lurrve our charm bracelets, and now you know why.


This amber pendant also has a very funny story: it was gifted by The Secret Weapon to a lady friend that knew before he met The Fan. Years later, that "old girlfriend" (if you want to call her that) contacted The Fan and insisted to return the pendant to her, she was the wife now, after all. I'm not sure what to think about that, and of course The Fan, again, she was not amused, and she gave it to me. I've never worn it but it must be over fifty years old now. 

And if you think I will search out my ninth grade boyfriend and present that little diamond-ette ring to his wife, if he has one, you will wait a long time for that. It's mine, a little treasure from my high school days and I'll not part with it.


Here, a silver cherub. A reminder of someone special who slipped through my fingers but lives in my heart.


This might be the silliest story of them all: when I was about ten years old, I had a tropical aquarium filled with angel fish and I just adored each and every one of them: Margaret, Flossy and Lucy were the ringleaders. Harold was the bully, he chased the girls relentlessly around the tank in circles. The fishes even ate right out of my hand.

One day after school, my parents gave me sad news: Margaret had passed. I was devastated. Rather than perform the standard "burial at porcelain sea" where pet fish find their final resting place, The Secret Weapon swung into action and carefully made a wax mold from her tiny corpse. He cast her in sterling silver and made a beautiful chain for her to hang around my neck, so I would never forget my first pet that I loved so dearly. 

You might think it a little odd that I wear my dead pet fish around my neck, but what a conversation piece it is.


The last sentimental piece in our jewelry box is Loopy's engagement ring from Veto. When we were engaged on the shore of the St. Lawrence River in Quebec City, we decided to search out an engagement ring for her before we searched for mine. When we returned home, Veto asked Buddy and Loopy if we could all get married and become a family, and Loopy was presented with her very own "engagement ring." She was ecstatic.  It is so tiny and now she can only wear it on a chain around her neck on special occasions.

And so there you have it... not as dramatic or priceless as the Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis  Collection, but priceless to me nevertheless.

Friends, what pieces do you have that hold sentimental value to you? 

19 comments:

Karen said...

you have a very good heart

Marie. said...

Oh your pieces are interesting. I think the fish one is the most "aww" worthy. Seriously, it made me tear. I think that's the sweetest thing ever and not at all silly! You're very lucky!

I'm not a huge fan of jewelry, and I'm very private about my prized possessions (thanks to a younger brother who broke every prized possession I had when I was younger)! But I'm very tempted to do this!

The French Bear said...

What charming jewelry stories, it is so romantic to read about the personal side, the story behind the gems.
I have two beautiful diamond rings from my Dutchman that mean more to me then all my jewelry.
I love the engagement to Loopy, that is so sweet!
I did take my diamond tennis bracelet from my previous life and trade it for a stunning solitaire ring for my daughter. I gave it to my son in law to give to her (shhh, we have this little secret), they were so broke and he wanted to give her a ring so badly, I loved being cupid!
Hugs,
Margaret B

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Kim said...

I love each & every one of your stories. Thank you so much for sharing.

My favorite piece for sentimental reasons is a pair of earrings that my husband gave me a few months after we started dating. I had been away for a week, the first time that we had been apart since we started dating. He met me at the airport gate (pre 9/11) with a dozen roses & the earrings. Not only was it such a wonderful surprise, but they were something that I would have chosen for myself. At that point, I pretty much decided that I needed to hold onto him :)

YSLGuy said...

I think when anything has a special story behind it, it becomes more dear to us. What a great collection!

Alexis said...

I don't have too many sentimental peices but I do have a gold with diamond and saphhires bangle that I love for its history.

It used to belong to my great grandmother on my dad's side, the inside of the bracelet is engraved JR 25 Septembre 1986. During WWII, my grandmother had the stones pawned to raise needed money for the family but after the war her sister got them back and had them reset back into the bracelet. :)

I love wearing it to formal events, as well as a carabao horn bracelet that belonged to some ancestor on my mom's side named Joaquina. I love it's vintage look with the little ornate goldcolored metal letters spelling out Joaquina. Not that I have Joaquina anywhere in my name, I just like its looks. :P

Lisa said...

I love your stories, and am glad to see the fish story on here now! I can't believe some houseguest would actually "lift" jewelry from your house! That is awful. Too bad you can't get it back somehow. I have some sentimental jewelry pieces, and cherish them SO much now that my mom and grandmother have both passed away. Thanks for sharing!

SOINSPIRED said...

Such sweet stories. Your Dad is incredible!

SandraD said...

Loved reading about those memorable events in your & your family's histories. My most memorable piece of jewellery is a thin good pinky ring. After my dad died, my mom took some of his jewellery and had the gold made into rings for each of the 5 children.

Kristi said...

I love the delicate pearl bracelet and earrings that my ninth-grade boyfriend gave me for Christmas. I'm pretty sure that his mother picked them out and at the time I thought that the gift was a little "old" for me. However, twenty years later, I am so happy to have them in my collection.

My very favorite pieces are from my thoughtful husband...a sweet peridot horseshoe pendant, his first gift to me, and a beautiful diamond fleur-dis-lis pendant that was given to me the night before we married.

Green Girl in Wisconsin said...

The Secret Weapon has amazing skills! Wow is that ring gorgeous--and that story about the diamond chip is sweet too.
I have a ring from my grandmother that was given to her from her father for her graduation, given to me on mine. Naturally, my wedding ring, my other grandmother's class ring, and a bracelet I bought in Ireland. The rest is junk;) Oh, except for this pair of pink ipod earrings...

Tracy said...

A beautiful necklace that my stepdad gave me on his last Christmas with us before he died. I love it, and remember him each time I wear it.

Today would have been he and my mom's 8th anniversary. I wish he were still with us. I love you, Johnny!

Niki said...

Thanks for sharing those pieces of yourself. I have way too many pieces with stories as i have collected jewelry my whole life, but some of the most precious are a pin my grandma wore on her church suit, the bracelet my mom wore in her wedding and the "best friends" charm i bought for my BFF's 16th birthday 22 years ago that we both still wear when we are together.

Kelly said...

What a great post!

the treat girl said...

I too wear almost the same jewellery day in and day out....the Rolex my parents gave me over 20 years ago, my wedding rings, a Tiffany heart tag bracelet my mom all of us girls when we went to Chicago to get CindyLou's first American Girl doll....on 10-01-01 (it's engraved :) and either diamond studs or silver hoops. But I do have a stash of sentimental pieces as well....I should spend a few hours going through them and embracing the memories.

Pete and Ang said...

Beautiful stories.

My two favorite pieces are the only two rings that I own. The first is a beautifully simple solitaire diamond on a gold band that my great-grandmother received as her wedding ring in 1924. She actually lost the diamond for over a year and found it in a crack in the wood floor of her kitchen. Incredible! It has been passed to the first daughter in each family since then. I was given the ring the day that my husband asked me to marry him and wore it throughout our engagement. Someday, I will pass it on to my daughter who is now just 4 months old.

The second ring is my wedding ring. My husband knew that I wanted something unique and designed a gorgeous platinum, engraved ring with a deep red ruby in the center. I saw if for the first time when he opened the box during our wedding ceremony. I absolutely love it. See it here: http://www.knoxjewelers.biz/products/angela

Stephanie ~ Angelic Accents said...

Exquisitely told stories of your lovely jewelry collection ~ and the lovely memories associated with each piece. Thanks so much for sharing your heart with us!

Big TX Hugs,
Stephanie
Angelic Accents

Jenn@ You know... that blog? said...

Oh wow, your father is beyond price, Saucy. That he even thought to do that for you is awe inspiring.

I too was given a ring by a grade 9 boyfriend. Only mine was a stylized wedding band (I found out MUCH later) that was a matched set from a divorced aunt, who said he could have them. I tried to give it back to him after we broke up, but he wouldn't take it, and I still have it in my jewelry box. A sweet, funny, slightly disturbing memory ;) I also have a silver locket that belonged to my great great grandmother, a watch that my grandfather gave to my grandmother, and a few other pieces.

My great uncle Hazen was a buyer for Birks many decades ago, and I have a few pieces he had as well.

Fleur de Bee said...

Oh this was the most beautiful post!! How amazing that Loopy has her own ring too...VERY thoughtful of Veto!!! I have a "promise ring" from a boyfriend back in High School too...haha so funny we held onto those silly things!

I LOVE the Jackie O collection. I love HSN too. I have used Serious Skin Care along with others from Nordstroms for over 7 years and swear by their stuff! That channel can be addicting! I had to stop watching while doing laundry LOL!